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Conversation: I'm new here
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Started by: Peter Mouse
on: 04/15/2012 08:56 AM |
Hi,
I'm new here. I'm a house husband and have been for several years. My spouse finally hit the big-time and then dumped me. I'm stuck in the bush with a very casual job, still feeding her pets, no self esteem and a lotta hurt. She's up in the mining camps, miles away from here.
I'd just like someone to talk to about anything other than 'what she did to me".
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Conversation: hurt
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Started by: memory4ever
on: 01/21/2012 08:40 PM |
| how can some one stop loving u after 25yrs im not sure if he's going threw change of life |
| 1 commentsLast comment: 01/21/2012 10:40 PM |
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Conversation: dont know what to do
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Started by: justwaiting
on: 08/04/2011 07:45 PM |
| Hurt ! it just wont ever go away |
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Conversation: I just don't understand why
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Started by: kerisa0802
on: 05/12/2011 01:09 PM |
I have been married for two years. Yesterday my husband and I had a small argument that turned into more than I expected. He told me that he has never had any feeling for me what so ever. That he has never loved me or cared about me at all. He says he only stuck around as long as he did for our son that is 18 months old. I don't understand how someone could feel that way. Everyday he would tell me he loved me and that we were going to grow old together. We were supposed to be getting a house together soon and he even wanted to try and have another baby at the end of the year. How can this be? How is it that someone can want to do all of this but yet have no feelings for me at all? Has anyone else experienced this or have any insight on this matter? He also tells me that he doesn't want to be married anymore. That he just isn't good for anyone. That he feels as though he could never love anyone and it's not only me.
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| 2 commentsLast comment: 09/08/2011 07:42 PM |
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Conversation: how to get email password of spouse?
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Started by: mronio
on: 04/07/2011 11:23 AM |
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Conversation: fear for whats next
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Started by: devasted
on: 02/13/2011 11:47 PM |
i am an adult child of parents who are about to divorce.
long story short my father has always been ultra conservative and ultra controlling. my mother has reached a point in her life where she is successful and realizes she doens't need to deal with him and his demands. so they way he copes with this is he accuses her of cheating on him with any man he can think of.
its been months of verbal and emotional abuse and sometimes physical - where he has attacked me when i have been defending her. we are seeing a lawyer and what i am afraid of is his reaction to getting notified that she is filling ending their marriage. i will never admit this to my mother because i want to be strong for her but i am actually a wreck over what he may do. how do other people deal with this feeling.... any help would be appreciated.
i wish everyone peace of mind and happiness |
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Conversation: Was I ready for Marriage?
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Started by: Capri16
on: 02/13/2011 01:35 AM |
| According to my soon to be ex-husband, I was not a good wife and that, as a women, I needed to follow and learn to be in my place. Whatever does that mean? I felt trapped in my marriage, i felt like i couldn't even say a joke because he would take offense to it or if he felt like saying a compliment he would do it in a mocking, sarcastic way making me feel bad about myself. Every time i wanted to discuss one of his wrong doings I was never allowed to because, after all, i needed to be thankful and grateful for everything that he had done for me and my daughter. He was a great provider, hard working, we always just had enough. I never asked for more, i was happy with what he was giving us. I would also ask my daughter to be respectful to him, to talk to him, to understand his behavior. However, i became angry, resentful, upset at him. Nothing i ever did pleased him, he always nagged and asked for more. If i got upset he would respond by saying "if you love me you wouldn't do that". Or he would get mad and be mean to me and say "i do this because you behave this way" or "you did this to me on this day, remember". I became miserable, unhappy but no matter how much i tried to make him see what he was doing he just didn't want to listen. He was always right and perfect. He left 3 weeks ago and i am now going back to my old self. I don't get mad anymore, i'm happy with my kids, I'm taking a class and enjoying it very much. Unfortunately, we have a daughter together and now he's demanding to see her (his right) but he is apparently hurt and upset and it's all my fault. I really don't want to see him, everytime i do i always end up feeling bad and get very sad. Is not like i miss him or love him. I stopped loving him long ago. I think is his negativity, his angry and demeaning look. I feel like he wants to hurt me and he does by telling me it was all my fault. I wish i hadn't had kids with this man. I'm not saying i regret having my little baby but he just makes it so impossible. I want to leave, run away and never see him again. I know, it sounds immature but when you have been hurt so badly and the other person doesn't at least apologize in a nice way is hard to handle it emotionally. It's heart breaking. I hope all of this ends soon. |
| 1 commentsLast comment: 05/09/2011 10:22 PM |
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Conversation: Seeing wife softens heart.
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Started by: David
on: 10/02/2009 05:44 PM |
After spending three months completely unable to talk to my wife (thanks to a wrongful injunction), I get a passing chance to talk to her for 10 minutes. Despite all the horror she caused (and will yet cause), my heart ached when I saw her. Her actions have destroyed all of my trust and respect in her, but my heart still melted when I saw her.
I don't know if I am really still in love with her or if my 24 year emotional connection is refusing to let go. My head say to walk away, but my heart is asking me to wait.
I would like to know from those of you out there who have "been there - done that" if what I feel is normal. How did you handle regrets and second guessing? Was it hard to separate the conflict between the head and the heart? |
| 1 commentsLast comment: 10/03/2009 01:28 PM |
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Conversation: Seeing wife softens heart.
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Started by: David
on: 10/02/2009 05:44 PM |
After spending three months completely unable to talk to my wife (thanks to a wrongful injunction), I get a passing chance to talk to her for 10 minutes. Despite all the horror she caused (and will yet cause), my heart ached when I saw her. Her actions have destroyed all of my trust and respect in her, but my heart still melted when I saw her.
I don't know if I am really still in love with her or if my 24 year emotional connection is refusing to let go. My head say to walk away, but my heart is asking me to wait.
I would like to know from those of you out there who have "been there - done that" if what I feel is normal. How did you handle regrets and second guessing? Was it hard to separate the conflict between the head and the heart? |
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Conversation: Abusive Relationship
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Started by: Cuglietta
on: 10/01/2009 11:23 PM |
| I've been married to my husband for 20 years. My husband spent alot of time with his friends, and drank alot. His friends were more important then me. I have 2 daughters. We separated once, and got back together. I went back for the kids sake. I was always alone. He worked but on his days off he went to camp all the time. I devoted most of my marriage to my kids. He was physically abuse once, he's very verbally abusive. He complained that I didn't communicate to him, but how do you communicate to someone who doesn't listen to you so I just gave up in communicating. Because I was alone I started gambling, I ended up having a gambling problem because I have been so unhappy for so long. I was in denial about my marriage, I wanted it to work. With the gambling I started lying, making fake documents, I've done things that I'm not proud of, which I feel guilty about. Since the separation I haven't gambled, going to group. Now my husband has a girlfriend which I feel anger, resentment, jealousy. He's treating this girl like and princess. Why couldn't he be like that with me. He doesn't drink as much, doesn't hang out with his friends. How do I get passed that he has a girlfriend. I scared that I might be alone my whole life, will I ever meet someone else. Also , when I left my kids 16 & 14, I decided for them to stay at the house, I didn't to disrupt their lives . They have lived in this house over 10 years. I'm presently living in an apartment, working 2 part-time jobs. The hardest part of the whole separation is spending all the time with my kids. I raised those girls by myself, my husband was never around and when he was he spent most the time with his friends drinking. Part of me wishes to get back together with him, and the other part says no. Why do I still love him. My counsellor that I see says to me to think about all the bad and negative things that have happened during your marriage. I try that but it sometimes very difficult. |
| 1 commentsLast comment: 10/02/2009 08:33 AM |
