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Started by: wilynicci on: 06/27/2011 10:43 AM
we may not have started on a great footing - i needed a visa and we had to push the existing relationship along much faster so i could stay, but gods a witness i really loved him and believed hes just right for me - yes he had problems but what opportunities i offered him out of his downward-spiralling life was not shared apparently. he wanted to continue severely abusing alcohol and became very aggressive when i couldnt take it anymore and after NUMEROUS UNTOLD attempts at conciliation became very down and accusing and other negative behaviour but never aggressive or below some level of integrity. now all is f-ed up and he has vehemently said many times he doesnt love me and hes here for his little son, but still feels some responsibility for me and him. hes always refused any outside help or self-help and just says the marriage were forced and that i didnt really love him. believe me i've to my detriment opened mself to lots of abuse tried to support and raise esteem and love one-sidedly but to NO avail. he just always takes and i always give and it gets thrown back in my face. i believe i may be an abused spouse
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